Reasonable Man

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  1. taz

    A report is shared with SS when children are in a house when there is domestic violence.
  2. Sounds like, smells like and looks like one. Not that that's got anything to do with the random and incorrect statement that none of it is legally enforceable. The car finance definitely is as there is a legally binding contract. The student walking off without paying for her drink has made off without payment, so criminally wrong. The EU payments were signed up to and have yet to be tested in court but an agreement is an agreement. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  3. Sounds like the typical Brexiteers view. A. Let's hope everything will be okay; B. If you say it often enough it will become true. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  4. Those things that the UK signed up to that are being paid for in instalments, in effect. It's like agreeing a four year finance deal on a car then deciding after two years that you don't like the car anymore. The Brexiteers want to have a new car and don't see why they have to keep paying for the old one. Another analogy I saw was titled 'brexit for students'. 28 people go into a bar and order their drinks. One then leaves without paying. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  5. Vetting - "Within 5 Years"?

    It's not Freedom of Information. That's not for personal details. You mean Subject Access under the DPA. If the reason is sensitive they can still refuse to tell you. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  6. Flexible working

    Many officers work reduced hours. In my old force one even worked three days a week (equivalent) during his probation Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  7. holidays, pay and pension

    Public Holidays are additional to the Annual Leave entitlement. Don't know about overtime in the Met. Employers contribution on the NPPS is between 21% and 24%, employees contribution starts at 12.44%. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  8. Sounds like you need to sever your direct links with this man. As I say family law solicitor is your only way to go. Court orders re child access and not to attend your address etc. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  9. I line of text on a public forum isn't policing, lazy or not. I mean when a real police officer attends a real incident and says it's 'civil'. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  10. More like Controlling or Coercive Behaviour. Speak to a family law solicitor about options to protect yourself from such behaviour. Then try the police but you will probably be in for a long journey with the police suggesting 'words of advice' being given, that may make the situation worse initially. You will then have to report every incident to the police and find yourself explaining the whole story repeatedly. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  11. Which is why my first post said to gather the facts. Bdsheff said, with certainty, that it is 'civil'. I can think of many situations where this would involve criminal offences but only one where it would be purely 'civil', hence the likelihood that it is criminal. 'It's civil' always makes me suspicious of lack of knowledge and/or lazy policing. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  12. You've made a lot of assumptions from the woolly description in the OP. This is much more likely to involve criminal activity. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  13. Steward (in house) and copper

    Basically 'yes' then. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  14. Steward (in house) and copper

    What's an in house steward? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  15. Gather the facts and deal with it on a case by case basis. All of what you suggest could happen in various situations. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk