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Best Answer Anna32, 10 November 2012 - 08:10 AM

(Just moved this thread to the legal questions area.)

Yes, I'd say it is, and it's an abusive situation all round. This is not going to be easy at all. I'd suggest reporting it formally, but it's going to need very careful handling if your sister is still siding with him at this point (very common, sadly- people often don't see what's happening to them when they're in the middle of it).

I also want to say yes to reporting him for drink driving, as he could easily kill someone. You can do this anonymously, if you need to.

Good luck. This is not good, for your sister or for anyone else involved.

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#1 Daveway69

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Posted 09 November 2012 - 10:06 PM

I have a question and need guidance.

My sister (half sister) has told me that her fiancé has held her down and had sex when she never wanted to. I would call this rape but she does not see it that way. She uses excuses that he was drunk and that she only carried on to keep peace. When she told him that he hurt her then he just laughed.

What can I do in this situation when she has not told anyone else other than me what her fiancé is like?

I have confronted him with the allegation and he naturally took offence and has offered violence and is now seeking revenge. Can I get a restraining order to stop him contacting my family?

Edited by Daveway69, 09 November 2012 - 10:10 PM.


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Posted 09 November 2012 - 10:14 PM

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Posted 10 November 2012 - 08:10 AM   Best Answer

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Posted 10 November 2012 - 09:02 AM

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