Hi everyone,
I havent seen nor spoken to my older sister in 4 years. I'm 30 yrs old, she is in her mid 40's.
Yesterday she sent a nice text to my fiance asking him to get me to phone her.
Since i knew if things didnt go her way, i unblocked her from facebook and nicely asked her what did she want to talk to me about, i was worried as our family had just had a recent berevement.
She said she wanted to start talking again and to repair our relationship as sisters, i told her i couldnt trust her (her boyfriend abused me when i was 9-10 years old and tried to abuse me again when i was 14, i told her what he did to me when i was a 14, first she blamed me and then she denied that he did anything wrong)
Anyway i asked her if she is or was in denial about it all and she said, she believed me that her boyfriend abused me and said who knows whats in the future i.e in terms of denial.
Then she got very nasty like dr jekyl mr hyde. She knows that i have PTSD from when i was raped years ago and that i have bad anxiety and depression, i begged her to stop messaging me because she kept saying "that man had sex with you" etc i kept telling her it wasnt sex, it was rape.
I even told her that she was triggering me and causing me to have flashbacks and if anything were to happen to me it would be on her (not in a threatening way, she knows that sometimes when i have had a bad flashback i sometimes dont remember that i have punched the wall for incidence)
She then repeatedly messaged me saying haha glad flashbacks of rapist, she messaged that to me over 15 times and then told me to kill myself.
I have reported her to facebook but i am unable to block her for 48 hours.
I know this may seem stupid or maybe not to some.
Please is there anything legally i can do to stop her from contacting me?
Thank You,
L
P.S I am safe.
sorry that was meant to read *Since i knew if things didnt go her way i didnt want to phone her and then go through the trouble of changing my number so i unblocked her from facebook........
